Top 10 Social Networking Peeves
Monday, October 27th, 2008If you are guilty of any of these things, no offense - see peeve #5. However, I do think these are valid gripes, and I hope if you’re a bit too guilty of any of these things, you can see the error of your ways and think on your evil deeds.
Or maybe you’ll just leave a comment calling me a big poopy head. Hey, either/or. A comment’s a comment, right?
1) Stop following 2000 Twitterers - It’s a cynical use of Twitter specifically and bad for social media generally. These tools are supposed to foster communication - not be a competition to see who can get the most follows. I find myself not friending back a lot of people because I can see they only followed me to get that follow back, with no interest in what I’m about. It sounds like common courtesy, but if your own Twitter page is chock full of posts from people you have no interest in, what good is it?
2) Lot of friending, Little updating - You aren’t fooling anyone when you do this either. Sure, your investment of following 1000 people has gotten you 900 followers somehow, so you’re finally “known.” But the last time you added anything to the conversation was a month ago, and that was a ping from that blog you don’t spend too much time with either.
Oh yeah, I sure want to keep tabs on your excitting life, Captain Fun!
3) Echoing - Speaking of pings from your blog, which I don’t actually mind, I have to say something about daisy chaining all of your accounts so they become one big mess. You set up your Twitter to auto post from your blog, but you also have Brightkite getting links from there. And Twitter posting everything you do on Brightkite anyway. And FriendFeed posting the entire mess as well. Which is then forwarded to…
We get it, you’re very connected and you know how to use an RSS feed. But you need to learn how to not beludgeon people with information using them. (LOL - I am so guilty of this on my own time, by the way.)
4) Dropping links to your blog instead of your post - I don’t care that you have a “really smart blog about electronics.” However, if you have a new post that is an insightful ”review of the new Google Phone!” I might be interested in reading it. Leave the general link to the blog in your profile. But tell me about your blog posts on your favorite 2.0 sites, and if I like what I read, I may become a fan. Then I’ll read it more often, bookmark it, leave comments… you know, all the stuff you hoped would happen when you started the damn thing up in the first place.
5) People afraid of being Flamed - “Flaming” is when someone gets particularly nasty on line with another user, and a “flame war” is when two people trade vicious barbs publicly. This came out of forums, and resulted in a lot of instances of people choosing sides, leaving the site behind, and creating “World of Warcraft” accounts, where this sort of thing still happens, but at least you get to do it with an axe.
This is nothing new, but I find the new problem is convincing people you AREN’T flaming them. Any criticism - or even controversial opinion - becomes a call to arms, and eventually errupts into a real flame war. I myself have blocked a number of people from my own accounts, simply because I shared some opinion that someone else took grave offense at.
I suppose my gripe here, then, is with people who are way too thin skinned to be on line. Then again, if you know how to use a block button, I guess it doesn’t really matter what they do with themselves, does it?
6) Robert Scoble - Kidding. See, cause I just did the thing about flamming… ah, nevermind…
6) Top 10 Lists - No irony here, I hate these things. Someone figured out a long time ago that Digg LOVES Top 10 lists, and since then every fool with a blog (present company included) has been making one of these to appeal to readers who don’t read blog posts, just bullet points.
Include some actual information once in a while. Horray for you for getting on the front page of Digg, but if you can’t keep it up by actually writing something useful for a change, that increased traffic won’t do anything for you. Because that traffic comes from other social users - we’ll follow you if you’re quality, but if you’re not we’ll actively excise you from all that we see.
7) Not blogging - Most of these peeves are about people doing something wrong, and you’d almost think doing nothing would be better than committing some of these sins. But frankly, when it comes to businesses, it is vexing when they do not have a company blog that lets me know not only what is going on with their company, but within their industry. The goal of this very blog is to keep readers abreast of what we feel is important in Internet marketing and advertising, as well as to give our clients and potential clients something to ask us questions about.
Companies that expect people to become customers simply because that company dained to write some ad copy and post some banners on their site, frankly, I find irksome. Get off your ass and get a Wordpress account already!
8 ) Comment Spam - Do I even need to address this? SEOs, who don’t know how to properly use black hat techniques, leaving comments on every blog they find, which contain links to sites no one wants to visit, in hopes they’ll drum up some PageRank. I assume someone paid these people for this. I wonder if they found them through on of those creepy, “get listed on 100s of search engines!” ads.
9) Updates that are strictly Ad Copy - I don’t mean, “Hey! I just posted about our open house!” on Twitter, because technically, that’s posting about a blog update, and I have no beef with that.
However, posting, “We make tasty chocolate! Free samples at our open house!” five times in a row, on the same day… leave the push marketing to your media campaign.
10) Creating a new blog when all you want is a new post - I know creating a blog is easy, but do you really NEED an entire blog about the new flavor of sherbert you guys are selling? Can’t you just have one sherbert blog, and write a new post about that beef and broccoli mix? You’re going to abandon it inside of six minutes anyway, so why clutter the landscape with another promotional blog that never got seen?
Worst case scenario is someone finds your unused micro blog and decides that if you couldn’t maintain it, even you didn’t think it was very important.
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